SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
JUMPSTART PROGRAM
WHAT IF...
You could you START Saving Your Marriage from loneliness and disconnection and conflict even if your husband is NOT on board...
You could START restoring your communication with your Husband without spending years in Talk Therapy
You could START Having a Healthy-Thriving Marriage RIGHT NOW…
You could START connecting your transformation and healing process to the truths of God–while deepening your relationship to God AND your husband at the same time.
... YOU CAN!
HERE'S THE THING
You have been most likely doing the wrong things
... I have learned that there are huge misconceptions about how to SAVE and RESTORE a marriage
Here is what most people do to SOLVE this PROBLEM:
They turn to talk therapy or couples counseling
They WAIT on their husband’s to change
They do NOTHING because they are scared to ROCK the BOAT
They binge on podcasts and self help books
They separate or give up
They try to convince their husbands to change
AND I know this because I’ve been a therapist for nearly a decade
Therapy is great for so many things…
but may NOT be the best option for you
AND is most often NOT the QUICKEST way to bring
you restoration in your marriage.
We now know that simply talking doesn’t engage the body and nervous system, where healing happens and the pain lives.
We also know that we must feel to heal.
This is how God made us.
Most women are NOT usually aware of the role pain and relational trauma or “emotional baggage” plays in their marriages. It may be uncomfortable to talk about, because you may not think you even have trauma or issues.
The truth is we ALL do on some level and it shows up in our marriage whether we want to admit it or not.
WHAT CAN TRAUMA LOOK LIKE IN MY MARRIAGE?
This can look like:
• Mistrust
• Deep Resentment
• Avoidance, Depression
• Anxiety and Anger
Unfortunately all of this is what often DRIVES loneliness and disconnection…the feelings you are SICK and TIRED of.
Until we understand the truth of our story, gain clarity and step into our God given power and wisdom–we will not be able to overcome our current cycles and heal.
Most women also may not be aware that we have more power than we think.
Sitting around waiting, and hoping for something to change in our marriages, pointing the finger, stewing over past pain and heartbreak without doing anything about it–truly makes no sense and will only increase our resentment, loneliness, and disconnection.
We know that we control 50% of our marriage right? However, what I have discovered in my years helping others, is that we truly affect so much more than we think in our relationships.
How we act and show up in our marriage directly impacts how our husband shows up…we just don’t often have the ability to see this clearly when we are so close to our own pain and frustration.
I hear this a lot and truly you are preaching to the choir :) The hard truth here is–if you want something different and you have tried all the things…then it is unfortunately up to you to make something different happen.
From a psychological point of view, when we are the ones suffering and in heartbreak and pain; then it is ONLY up to us to make something different happen, because WE are the ones that are upset about it. Make sense?
I know it’s frustrating to think, “One more thing I have to do by myself in this marriage”. What I want to challenge and encourage you towards is this…What if your stubbornness has been holding you back thus far because you haven’t been willing to lean into the challenge and take action?
How much longer are you going to let that stubborn, possibly prideful part of you…win?
What is it costing you emotionally if you do?
Our change as human beings does NOT take place in a vacuum.
When we change it affects others and technically it affects history. No two people can ever and will ever change at exactly the same time and in exactly the same way.
Your change, passion and transformation directly affects your husband and his… yours. God created us this way.
Remember he made us for relationship and we mirror to others what we want, what we feel and what we aspire to. This is where inspiration comes from.
How could you actually reclaiming your power and clarity inspire your husband?
How could it transform you, your marriage, and your family legacy?
"Now, if anyone is enfolded into Christ, he has become an entirely new person. All that is related to the old order has vanished. Behold, everything is fresh and new. And God has made all things new, and reconciled us to himself, and given us the ministry of reconciling others to God!.”
2 Corinthians 5:17-18(NIV)
WE ARE CALLED TO HAVE AN ABUNDANT LIFE AND THAT MEANS IN OUR MARRIAGES TOO.
The method and program that I have developed help women gain clarity, and wisdom and get in touch with their God-given power so that they can let go of whatever has been holding them back and keep them stuck–so they can have restoration and Save Their Marriages.
Even if you have tried all the things and nothing has worked OR if you're just starting to recognize issues and struggles in your marriage… YOU are the only one standing in your way…
Yes! You can entirely make this happen with God and me by your side–even if your husband is not on board and checked out.
YES! You can START saving your marriage RIGHT NOW and JOIN my Save Your Marriage Jumpstart Program TODAY!
Hi, I'm Julie
I have been a licensed therapist for nearly 8 years working in the field for 9 years AND am trained as a leadership coach. I am also a wife of 8 years to my best friend, a mother of 5 years and have unfortunately been divorced.
I have gone through significant marital struggles with my current husband and I know that If I hadn’t done my own work on my own marriage… I would not be married today and would have just repeated an old pattern.
MY STORY…
When COVID hit, my marriage became incredibly fragile and unstable. I was struggling big time and often felt I was on the brink of divorce.
Since I had been divorced before, this was already there in my mind and heart as a way out and an available option for me.
My ex husband was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive to me and I had unknowingly brought all of that baggage and relational trauma into my current marriage. This was also an unfortunate part of my story that I hadn’t realized that I had not fully healed from.
So in my current marriage, between the constant fighting and awkward silence, I felt so lonely and like I couldn’t connect with my husband anymore. I told myself he couldn’t possibly understand what I was going through.
Covid pushed me into the role of breadwinner in our family and I did not want to fill those shoes. I felt tremendous pressure and resentment, I didn’t feel I could share it with him because he was struggling too.
His pain about his career disappointments were too big for me to carry as well. So instead I buried my pain and chose to believe the lies, that “he didn’t care about me”, “it was up to me to do everything alone” and “he could never understand what I was going through”.
ALL LIES!
Most of these false narratives were OLD lies from my old story and were literally causing me to think about divorce almost daily.
I knew that was not God’s plan for me and I knew God wanted us to be together and raise our daughter, but I couldn’t shake the thought that, “being without him, would be better”.
The longer I held on to that belief, the deeper depressed and angry I felt. The lies were crippling me, causing me more pain and keeping me stuck.
However, I was able to have a RADICAL change in my own heart and MARRIAGE as I began to do the work I needed to on myself.
As I began to heal with God at the center; I reclaimed the truth in my story and knew that divorce was no longer going to be an option for me.
Connecting my current struggle to my past relational trauma and to God’s truth made ALL the difference. It also allowed me to walk more closely with God in bravery and empowerment instead of living powerless and trapped by my own fear and baggage.
I had clarity and truth as my guide instead of being blocked by my own pain and the lies I was telling myself.
From my own journey, I was able to design my coaching program and my
Clear and Transformed Marriage Method which helps other Christian women save their marriages and restore relationships.
Now, nearly 10 years in the helping profession I have acquired tons of information from my years in the mental health and coaching profession, learning from colleagues, books and from 10,000+ hours of sessions with my clients.
I have had a front row seat of witnessing my clients get amazing results sitting face to face with couples and individuals struggling with:
• Trauma & Loss
• Blended Families
• Suicide
• Emotional Betrayal and Infidelity
• Marital and Relationship Struggles
• Identity Issues
• Career and Financial Struggles
• ADHD, PTSD, Bi-polar and all types of addiction
So when I paired my years of experience as a therapist and coach with neuro-based science and the Gold of all the skills I had learned….the whole game changed and I was able to offer something NEW, streamlined, God Centered and far superior for my clients.
This process will absolutely save You TIME, MONEY and will Save YOU MORE PAIN and I cannot wait to share it with you!
Love, Julie
Love Julie
WHO I WORK WITH:
I have found that my process works best for these couples:
Christian or Faith Based wives who know who are ready for something different and are unfortunately done with WAITING and HOPING for their husbands to change and are done with putting all of the blame onto others.
Christian or Faith Based wives who know they are ready for something different and are unfortunately done with WAITING and HOPING for their husbands to change and are done with putting all of the blame onto others
Christian or Faith-Based wives who don't feel good about what is happening in their marriages and are actively looking to make changes… but don’t want to divorce. They are aware on some level that something is holding them back and keeping them "stuck".
Christian or Faith-Based wives who don't feel good about what is happening in their marriages and are actively looking to make changes… but don’t want to divorce. They are aware on some level that something is holding them back and keeping them "stuck".
Christian or Faith Based wives who are hard workers, motivated and ready to take ACTION and who are looking to grow; as they believe God has called them to more in their marriage AND they WANT MORE.
Christian or Faith Based wiives who are hard workers, motivated and ready to take ACTION and who are looking to grow; as they believe God has called them to more in their marriage AND they WANT MORE.
WHY I'M DIFFERENT
In case you didn’t know, most therapists cannot incorporate biblical and faith based principles as they work with their clients because of ethical and legal license parameters when it comes to religion.
As a coach, I have found an important purpose, niche and way to help people connect, by blending scriptural truths with my own story, experience and knowledge and can NOW offer it to you.
As a licensed therapist and coach I know a lot about what works and doesn’t work in a therapist office. The issue with talk and couples therapy is that it doesn't get to the heart of where our pain and emotions actually live in the brain and body.
You can’t talk yourself well, I often say, ‘we must feel it to heal it’ and this is well documented and supported by research.
Talk therapy primarily keeps us in our logic and head, instead of in our heart and body-where change and healing happens.
Couples therapy also has one of the lowest success rates as it most often uses outdated science and can stir up significant reactive emotions.
A lot of couples counselors or church counselors are unfortunately not trauma informed, nor do they have the appropriate training or know how to handle high emotions without getting triggered themselves. This leaves so many couples feeling more lost and hopeless than when they began therapy in the first place and still stuck.
My Save Your Marriage Jumpstart Program will get you OFF and Running and on the RIGHT PATH and you can do it ALL from the comfort of your own home and AT YOUR PACE.
For JUST $7 a month my membership program is ALSO super manageable for you FINANCIALLY. So Nothing is standing in your way. You CAN begin the process of having the Marriage you want.
What You Will GET:
Lesson 1- Wired For Story: Understand the purpose of God story design for our lives
Lesson 1 Action-Uncovering Your Story
Lesson 2- Learning Your Marriage Patterns & How to Change with HABIT Template
Lesson 3-How God Designed Thoughts, Feelings And Behaviors To Work Together
Lesson 4-Discovering How God Designed our Feelings
Lesson 4: ACTION Building Curiosity About Our Mindsets-"Truth Shift" Tool
Tool- Reclaiming Mindsets with the “Truth Vs Lie”
Tool-Truth Shift Template
Tool-Integrating Mindsets With Surrender- Emotion Freedom Technique
Lesson 5- God’s Design of Attachment
BONUS: Attachment Quiz Link
Lesson 6- The Attachment Dance In Marriage with Action
Lesson 7- Empathy Building with Your Husband’s Story Experience & Guided Meditation
Tool- Conflict Resolution Starter Script-“Slowing it All Down”
Tool-Calming the Overwhelm with “4 Square Breath”
5 The Truth About Talks: Boundaries, Codependency, Narcissism, Overwhelm & Betrayal Trauma
Marriage Meeting With God Meditation
ALSO GET THESE BONUSES ⭐️
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING:
Before my husband and I were married we wanted to find a counselor whom we could not only hope it understands the blended life we were about to create, but also help us navigate through it in a way that gave us tools to have a healthy marriage and blended family dynamic.
We were introduced to Julie and did several day intrusives with her, and have continued with counseling dung out dating, engagement and marriage. I personally been to many counselors in my past as I have walked through years and years of different traumas and difficult things. However, Julie was different from anyone I had ever gone to!!
Julie is caring, compassionate and kindly direct and she has a wealth of knowledge on how to not just talk about your problem but to help heal from the inside out. The tools that she equipped myself and also my husband with have been absolutely life-changing! l will forever be grateful to her for the "new me" she has helped bring about. I am truly the freest and happiest I have ever been!
- ASHER
When I began Julie's coaching program, Story Aware Relationships, I had my happy face on for the world, but inside I was struggling, sad, and withdrawing.
Grieving the decline in closeness that was once in my marriage, I desperately needed to do something to make things better with my husband.
Gratefully, the Lord put Julie in my path. Julie has combined her compassion, Godly wisdom, and experience as a therapist to create the perfect coaching program for Christian women.
Julie gently explores your story, gives you the science behind what is happening with your thoughts, and gives you skills to help get out of the negative thought cycles you may be in. If you are ready to take ACTION toward healing your marriage with a
God-centered coach, I urge you to take the step toward healing with Julie.
Working with Julie was like seeking Godly counsel from a trusted
mentor and friend. Will forever be grateful.
Thank you, Julie!
- SUSAN
"I highly recommend working with Julie. She is efficient, honest, and truly cares about the state of Christian marriages in our culture today. Run, do not walk to work with her"
- STACY
Julie gave me the tools to reprogram my thinking by reminding me that God is enough, even when I don't feel that I am. You need to go to the workshop to get the tools. They are wonderful and are giving me confidence for when those feelings of inadequacy resurface. I'm so thankful I went to her Story Workshop!
- SHARRA
Working with Julie has transformed how I view myself and how I relate to people around me. As a coach I feel she does more than just listen - she analyzes and helps design winning strategies. She observes the game and then watch the film!! She creates an environment of theological truth, loving encouragement, wise counsel, and psychology together that has given me the power to act and create change in any situation I face whether it be in my marriage, friendships or work environment. She is the real thing!
- MEGHAN
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